I never met either of my grandfathers.

I never met either of my grandfathers;
I’ve heard a lot about them, nonetheless.
That one was kind, a gentle man, a draftsman;
The other was an alcoholic mess

I’d see their photos on the walls, in albums;
A pair of piercing eyes, so grave and sad –
But realized that I would never know them
Not in-the-flesh, the way my parents had

A carpenter who liked to drink – my mom’s dad;
I know his favorite joke, some things he said –
My mom was only nineteen when he passed, though,
From the poor home my mom had lately fled

An engineer for Kodak was my dad’s dad;
Who taught my dad’s young wife first how to drive.
A man she loved, and still calls “Pop” to these days,
Who showed her gentlemen were still alive

Why do I talk about these long gone men now?
Because I realize that all I know
About my grandfathers is in the stories
I’ve heard about them, passed from long ago

And so when my days end, let my grandchildren
Know funny things I did, or things of worth;
Let me leave them a legacy of stories
To show that I once walked
Upon the earth

= = = = =

Prompt : “Imagine yourself at the end of your life. What sort of legacy will you leave? Describe the lasting effect you want to have on the world, after you’re gone. “

Author: Beleaguered Servant

Owen "Beleaguered" Servant (a/k/a Sibelius Russell) writes poetry mostly, with an occasional pause to have a seizure.

18 thoughts on “Grandfathers”

  1. I never knew, heard, or met my grandparents on either side. My father was an orphan and my mother’s father passed when she was 7 and she had a love/hate relationship with her own mother.

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    1. I only met my grandmother on my dad’s side. She loved kids, was about four feet tall, and about four feet wide, at least in my memory.

      Because my wife and I are each divorced, our grandkids have numerous grandparents. I wonder what they’ll remember of us.

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      1. Your grandmother sounds like a dwarf. 😉 you’ll have a big extended family. My in laws have many brothers and sisters so big family that way. My mother not so much and my father I probably won’t ever know and that is sad isn’t it ?

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  2. I agree my friend. I’m a Grandfather. I ensure I have time for the grandchilren. Show them the sea, the forest and how to laugh/have some fun. A outstanding story.

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      1. We must. Us elders must teach the children love, kindness and concern. Old Native American wisdom. “Grandparent are the teachers of the children and they must teach them well.”


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