patience is useful, all the time, but very hard to practice, because it takes both letting go, and keeping on, at once. this isn't a thing we do that well: we lean more towards complaining, not dealing with the minutes that can soon turn into months -- but patience is something we like a lot when others have it for us: and so, by love's great symmetry, we should return, as well, the time and space it takes, some days, or years, for things to happen: to feel the magic, even, when we sit and wait a spell
