she said she never knew true love until she had a child and i felt hurt as men will tend to do to know that we're extrinsic to a woman's love at last reckoning yet i had learned the lessons i was taught as a child -- that men are expendable in fire in flood in war it is our job to die so the greater work can go on without us if needs make so and that women will transfer the full expression of their love always to the smallest person in the room and they'll call you when they're ready for another one maybe