Don’t Give

She said
She did not know
What she should do

I said
I thought I kind of
Understood

She didn’t seek advice,
Which worked out well,
Since I had none to give
For I’m not her

For choices lie
At the intersection of things
And values;
And values are the sole property
Of their owner

I watched her face
Go calm;
Her eyes were closed,
We listened to
The sounds out in
The park

Finally, she said
“Would you like to get some coffee?”

“Yes,” I replied,
Although I meant tea in my case

For it seems
That what she needed most
At that exact moment
Was for me not to try
To give her what
Could only come from her

In what I wasn’t offering
She found solace

And she was grateful

Slam 14

Why do we send our boys out to be men

When we haven’t taught them to be boys first?

Sit still, keep it quiet,

Don’t you cry, don’t you ever cry —

We turn freeze rays on their souls,

Hearts meant to be on fire put through

The enforced sterilization of 

That damned blight, testosterone.

Don’t be too threatening, too sudden, too black, 

Sorry, “too urban” — 

As boys’ suppressed and latent bonding tendencies

Erupt into sports teams for the lucky,

Gangs for the unlucky,

And homicidal sociopathy for the rest –

Boys should be boys, so

That men won’t be –

The Ballad of Who and What

There was no one around for leagues,
And wearied with the day’s fatigues,
We stopped a while to stretch our limbs
With Who and What our pseudonyms

Who asked me why I’d come this far –
What told her it was just a car –
And Who and What could bide their time
Out here where jokes were not a crime

I know that all we’d done was kid
Like Abbot and Costello did;
But Who and What we thought we were
Is hard to know or to infer

For though our names are always nouns
(Some we misspell or mispronounce)
It is by pronouns we are known
Just him or her to call their own

And in the desert, Who gave out
To What the trip was all about;
For know one knew quite what to do
With God-knows-What and Lord-knows-Who

And so deserted, there we stayed
And withal What the words we played;
As Who knew what we really meant
When day was done and light was spent

There is no more that I can say.
It was a trip, a time, a day —
And What was left there still to rot?
Well, Who can say –
But she
Will not